Sunday, October 26, 2014

assorted squash

я: у нас постоянно гниет чеснок.
мама: не постоянно, постоянно значит он не переставая гниет
я: ну, почти
мама: я тебя все ровно люблю, не смотря на то что ты такая ворчливая

eng --
me: our garlic is constantly rotting.
mama: not constantly, for that it would have to rot nonstop
me: well, basically
mama: I love you anyway, even though you are so grumbly

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Yesterday we went to a birthday party for s&b, so many people came that the table was in an L shape from the dinning room into the living room, chairs set tightly all around, food a plenty. Guests from here, NYC, LA, Toronto, Tula, St. Petersburg. A boy a year younger than me from Tula asked "What do you think is a good age to get married?"
What a strange question, I thought. 

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Saturday, October 25, 2014

waiting room

Yesterday I went to the mechanic and waited while they changed a headlight bulb and the oil. They have nice waiting rooms: open area with a tv, separate closed area for kids filled with toys, another closed are for those who want quite. There was one man in the quite room, I joined him and tried to read.

He was at his laptop and sometimes his phone buzzed. When it did he would pick it up, look at it irritably, and respond. He wore a button down shirt tucked into kahki pants, and as soon as I entered he became the most boring person in the room. He needed to replace his tires as well as what he had come to fix, and his last name was Shaw.

A brunette entered the room, sat down noisily with Starbucks in hand, flipping open her tip-filled magazine. Her brakes had squeaked once. The mechanic said they were fine, that the sound was a one time thing, that he could change them but there's no point. He repeated this three times but she insisted he change them anyway.

At this point I noticed that the room with the TV also had free coffee, so I went and brewed myself a capsule. When I came back someone's stuff was in the the seat next to mine. Three self-help books, something like "Finding Hope" and "Putting yourself back Together". The man came back into the room and sat down right next to me (in a room of 20 chairs). He answered his phone Dr. Brown. He asked the mechanic to step outside the room when called upon.

A sever looking blond suburban woman, with short hair and a tall thin frame. She too was very aware of the quite sign on the door, looking over at me and saying 'sorry' after the conversation with the mechanic was over. Then she took her magazine and left. The brunette came back in, eyed her old spot, and sighed exhaustedly, having failed to find what she had lost, and left again.

A boy my age came in with a woman I thought was his mother until I realized she was his girlfriend.

I have two working headlights now.
In other news, Sima is very happy with the Halloween costume he picked out.


Friday, October 17, 2014

chronology?

7) Sara said "мне очень нравится как ты обнимаешься. очень крепко"

1) went to the MFA with Max. Saw Jamie Wyeth and didn't like how rubbery his subjects are and structureless his painting.

4) lunch with Tom.

2) drinks and food at Whiskey's with Max. He convinced me to leave my number for the waiter. We tried to go in a straight line and ended up back were we started -- that was before the drinks.

9) read a post Hannah wrote in France. I liked this one.

8) I sent out my resume, interviewed the same day, got a job offer the day after that and declined in the evening, stating a realization that hours of 10:45pm-8:45am wed-sat nights are not optimal for my functioning.

2.5) went blazer shopping at a thrift store with Yosef for his semi-formal. Very difficult task we have yet to succeed.

5) I finished reading Dovlatov's Иностранка (foreigner, or the official title in English A Foreign Woman). Like reading about a familiar zoo, and particularity good because I was just writing about racism in Russia and how it manifests once they emigrate.

3) Sanya is here from Moscow, she brought candy and I remembered that's one of the things I would get most excited about when Dedushka would visit.

6) Sara needed coffee. The girls sitting on the bench were trying to figure out where to go: map in hand, pinpointing a street to orient from. Four in a row, age 13 or so, out in the city.

10) attempted to post from my new and first proper smartphone. 

Thursday, October 9, 2014

what is substance

Death: We attended a memorial service for our neighbor Frank Musinsky who passed away in August. I remember one of my first conversations with him, I was nine or so and told him that I would love a boy if he was good and smart, regardless of how he looked: I almost believed it too. He had participated in founding the Paris Review, but I met him years later when he the sharp and inquisitive man in a wheel chair. As I got to know him he became more: the man who loved music and worked for most of his years and enjoyed a good conversation -- as evident by the number of people who attended the service. may he rest.

Growth: Sima just came from school and his roti chapati flatbread got a bit scorched in the toaster. He asked if the burned parts caused cancer, and then asked what cancer was. That he's heard that theres lots of different types and that one is not curable. That this little girl fell and her stomach hurt and when they took her to the doctor they found out she had cancer. He has homework now and a birthday party to attend soon.

Celebration: Eloosha came home for the Rosh Hashanah, so Yulka and I came over. Honey for a sweet year.

Future: Jo told me I seem calm and happy yesterday when we met for dinner. Alana joined and we walked around Cambridge and Sommerville. The future keeps coming and coming.

Season: It is undeniably autumn. Some trees standing bare and some are not ready to part with their emerald tapestry, but the others are yellow and orange and red, parting with their leaves, which one by one hit the ground.

(not at all like in the photo below)


a couple weekends ago; Ipswich River Wildlife Sanctuary - Mass Audubon